Mala Use and a Tiny Devotions Review

I recently had the distinct pleasure of opening my mailbox to find a beautiful amethyst mala from Tiny Devotions.  In comparison with the other malas that I own, I have to say that this set is truly the most lovely and calm-encouraging mala that I have owned.  The materials of the strand are both beautiful and of high quality, and the beads flow smoothly through the hands.  It also has such a pleasing and stylish appearance that I’m sure I will wear it with great regularity, in addition to using it for my meditation.  The particular mala that I selected has a amethyst medallion.  This was very special to me, because my mother’s favorite stone, and birth stone, was the amethyst, and having this mala on gives me a feeling of closeness to her.  The vibrations of amethyst, productive of calm, peace, and facilitating the search for higher unity, are also well suited to my needs at this time.  The stone is large, but not gaudy in any way.  Because I had a hard time knowing sizing from the pictures online, I have it pictured here on my hand.  My hands are relatively typically sized for a female.  The stone lands right above my naval when it is on (I’m about 5’6″).  In fact, the only downside I could come up with was that I have to hold onto it as I sit down at or rise from my desk at work or it will bonk the side (it only took hearing that once to learn).

If you are unfamiliar with mala, the other part of this post can be found at Living in the (k)Now after 6/2.  It covers the general history and makeup of malas.  In this post, I focus on the use of mala.

In general, mala beads are utilized in the counting of mantras, chants, or prayers, that can be repeated many times in one period of devotion or meditation.  Using a mala allows the practitioner to think about the meaning of the mantra/chant, rather than attempting to track the number of repetitions while also engaging in the practice.

There are different traditions for using mala.  In the Hindu practice, malas are generally held in the right hand.  The strand loops over the middle finger and the thumb moves from one bead to another in a clockwise direction.  The index finger is not used to touch the beads.  When the full cycle is completed, the guru bead is not crossed.  The mala is turned and the cycle moves back in the opposite direction.   In Buddhist practices, the mala may be held in the right or left hand (depending on the tradition) and the beads moved with either the thumb or the index fingers.  Similarly to the Hindu tradition, the guru bead is not crossed.  Should the practitioner wish to continue beyond the number of beads present, the strand is turned and moved in the opposite direction.


Keeping and storing the mala is another area that differs from one tradition to another.  In some schools of thought, the mala can, or even should, be worn as a necklace or bracelet.  In others, it is to be kept out of sight, brought out only for use.  Some suggest that a new mala should be used for 40 days in a row to attune it to the vibrations of the user.  Practitioners sometimes procure silk or cotton bags to store the mala between use. Others place it on an altar.  Wearing or bringing the mala to other devotional practices (for example Kirtan) is also thought by some to bring a positive energy to the beads.

As you can see, there are many different sets of tradition for the use of a mala.  Once you select your own set of beads, how to utilize and enjoy your mala is another dimension of your practice and should be guided by your own needs and beliefs.

Namaste!

L

Aparigraha Playlist

For my final teach in YTT, my theme was aparigraha. So, the playlist revolved around the idea of grasping/coveting. The first half(ish) was about how it leads to suffering and the second half was about the decrease in suffering as we let go. By request, here is what was on it.

  • Man of Constant Sorrow (Instrumental)
  • Charlie Darwin (Low Anthem)
  • Where the Streets Have No Name (Earl Pickens and Family)
  • Ill With Want (The Avett Brothers)
  • Everybody Hurts (REM)
  • Timshel (Mumford & Sons)
  • When My Time Comes (Dawes)
  • Hang On (Dr. Dog)
  • Carries On (Edward Sharpe & the Magnetic Zeros)
  • Across the Universe (The Beatles)
  • Let It Grow (Eric Clapton)
  • What Light (Wilco)
  • Life is Wonderful (Jason Mraz)
  • Quiet (Paul Simon)
  • Be Here Now (Ray Lamontagne)
  • Om Mani Padme Hum (Jane Winther)
  • Watermark (Enya)

So, for what it’s worth, there it is!

Namaste,

L

Required Yoga Gear for Beginners

I’ve been asked several times recently, once by an adult child o’ mine what one needs to start yoga.  This might seem, to some of you yoga veterans, like an odd question.  But, I have a lot of empathy for people who ask it, because my personal tendency is to want to “break  into” any new venture by buying something associated with it  (Thinking about running?  Need new shoes.  Biking?  Need a new bike.  Blogging? Need a website.).  So, in this post, I lay out what you need to get started in yoga.

What you really need is very very simple.  You need a little knowledge.  You need to know what yoga is and some ideas about how to get started.  If you are reading here, I’m going to assume you have internet access.  There are many sites about beginning yoga.  I would recommend surfing around a little and testing them out.  Some possibilities include ABC of YogaYoga Basics, Yoga Journal, and blogs like this and those listed on YIOMsite.com.  As you peruse such sites, get a sense of which appeal to you and which don’t.  If a site seems to be primarily about selling you a subscription, a book, a product, or a DVD, move on.  There are so many others to choose from, you don’t need to pay for this information to get started.  If/when you move into the physical practice, you can find plenty of free online videos to get you started (for example, check out Yoga Today where there is a different free class each week).  Next, you need a body.  Got one?  Good.  You need a place to practice.  It could be a spot in your yard, your kitchen, your office, or your bed.  It doesn’t have to have anything special about it, though you  may find over time that you practice better in some places than others.

What might be helpful but is not absolutely needed is the next category.  In this category, I would put a few things.  First, comfortable clothing.  This is a “might” and not a “must” because you can practice yoga in whatever clothing you have on or no clothing at all.  However, as you go along, you may find that clothing which breathes, stretches, and doesn’t bind is nice for your practice.  Don’t get caught up in thinking you have to rush right out to Lululemon to buy pants (don’t get me wrong, I have a pair that I love, but I started with pajama pants from Target).  Second, you might want a mat.  This isn’t a requirement, because you can practice yoga on your floor, carpet, a towel, or a blanket.  If your practice is primarily or partially asana (physical poses) and becomes more vigorous, you might find that having a mat prevents slippage and provides cushioning.  Again here, there are really pricey mats, but to begin with I would say ask your friends and see if someone has a spare they are using, or check out inexpensive stores like Target or Marshalls.  Third, you might want a live teacher.  You can learn quite a bit from online free videos, checking out DVDs from the library, and reading.  But, a teacher in the room with you provides the added benefit of feedback.  While I loved yoga before I started taking in-person classes, the instruction I received from face-to-face classes made a big difference in my practice and the understanding of it.  Check around your area for free classes at community centers or schools, reduced fee classes at local gyms or studios (some times of day might be less expensive than others), or inexpensive starter packages that will let you try it out.  Don’t get pressured into buying a year-long gym membership or a 3 month unlimited class pass.  You don’t have to spend that kind of cash to begin the practice.  Most studios or gyms with studio classes will provide all of the props, and often even the mat, that they are asking you to use during a class.

What’s cool to have but not really needed would include things like fancy schmantzy yoga clothes (not even going to lie, I love some of my more expensive clothing items, but I didn’t need them to do yoga), a really nifty mat, your own copy of Light on Yoga, a set of blocks and/or a blanket for your home practice, and some good yoga music.  All of these things are the extras. You don’t need them.  They won’t make you more unified with the divine, more fit, more “yogic,” or more peaceful.  They might tickle you to have, and if you want them, you have already figured out that you like yoga, and you can afford the purchases, rock on!

Namaste,
L