Pick Your Yoga Practice by Meagan McCrary – A Book Review

I was recently contacted by New World Library publishers to do another review of a yoga text for them. Because I have had a good experience in the past with their works, I agreed. What follows is that review. I would have also made this a book giveaway, as I typically do with all promotional books reviewed, but I spilled an entire cup of coffee on the book, so sadly no one wants it now!

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The book is titled Pick Your Yoga Practice and is by Meagan McCrary. While there are chapters about the general principles of yoga and yoga philosophy, the primary focus is on describing a variety of yoga styles, so that the reader can find the one that best fits his/her own needs and preferences.

There are 7 yoga styles, each with its own chapter, discussed in detail in the book. They are Ashtanga, Iyengar, Kundalini, Integral, Kripalu, Bikram, and Jivamukti. An additional chapter considers “the best of the rest” and includes Acroyoga, Anusara, and Forrest, among others.

While there are a few small points here and there that I would alter (regarding the yoga styles about which I am individually most familiar), I believe McCrary does a good job of providing a basic sense of the styles of yoga she covers in this book. Readers are provided with the information necessary to guide their exploration of different types of yoga.

I would not recommend trying to read this text back to back, as I did, because things start to become very confusing, very quickly. Instead, it seems to me that the best way to approach it would be to being with informational/philosophical chapters, and then move to the “Styles at a Glance” chart provided in the front of the book. After selecting a potential style, the reader could then read that chapter carefully, perhaps sample that style with a class or video, and then move on to others that sound appealing. Basically, I would suggest this as more of a reference guide than a book to simply read.

I was interested (troubled?) to note the absence of Yin yoga of any type in the text (even in the “best of the rest” chapter). All of the styles of yoga here are asana focused and are yang based. Those looking for a restorative or yin practice will find little here.  Similarly, non-hatha yoga is considered very little (primarily only in relation to the Integral style). Bhakti yoga gets one paragraph there and a mention in a chart on page 8, as do raja, karma, jnana, and japa. While I understand the choice, I think that it might have been wise to somehow indicate in the title or subtitle that this is a book about hatha yoga, not so much the rest.

Generally, while I have some small issues with the book, I think McCrary has done an excellent job of providing a reference guide for hatha yoga styles that could be very useful for those beginning a hatha practice or looking to branch out into other styles. I don’t hesitate to recommend it.

Namaste.

Everywhere and Nowhere at All

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About a decade and a half ago, there was a collective “woohoo” about how computers were going to revolutionize work life, particularly for mothers, because they would allow women to work from home, while still maintaining their family obligations. Everyone was very excited about the flexibility this offered and how it would help women attain greater work success without feeling that they were mothering poorly. And then, after some time, the research on this started being published and it didn’t seem to correlate with the hoped for idea. What most studies suggested was that women were not more happy and fulfilled, but less happy and fulfilled, and that they believed both their work and their family lives were suffering.

Why would that be the case? It seems that it was/is because, when they were tele- cyber-commuting, women felt that they were never really  home and never really at work. Home tasks and conversations were interrupted by work obligations. Work tasks and obligations were interrupted by home chores and interactions. The attempt to multi-task resulted in a sense that no task was being completed satisfactorily.

We know this in some sense. I think we have all had the experience of thinking we could read an article while watching TV and realizing after a while that we didn’t know what was happening on the show or in the article. Or, we’ve tried to make the pancakes and finish those emails and ended up with burnt pancakes and half-done correspondence. Tell me this isn’t just me.

We think we can save time by doing multiple things at one time, but it really just ends up using  up extra time and creating frustration, and it prevents us from being truly mindful about any of the things we are doing.

One of the advantages of yoga is that it helps encourage focus. It’s very hard to think about what to make for dinner when you are busy trying to figure out how to put your left foot into your hip crease and balance on your hands. It’s not a benefit I thought I would get from yoga, but it has turned out to be one of the most important things I have received.

Now, I don’t want to overstate this. I can’t lie. At this moment there are six tabs open on my browser. So, I still can get pulled into multi-tasking very easily. But, I would say that I’m at least more aware of that happening, and I don’t fool myself into thinking that I am getting or giving the very best.

 

Cruel to be Kind

We have spent some time this month talking about kindness at Yogawood. This has arisen from the theme of the month, drawn from a sloka from the Bhagavad Gita, which reads:

samniyama-indriya-gramam / sarvatra sama-buddhayah
te prapnuvanti mam eva / sarva-bhuta-hite ratah
Those who are able to control their senses, have equanimity of mind and rejoice in contributing to the welfare of all creatures are dear to me.
Bhagavad Gita XII.4

As we talked about this, my teacher, Beth, noted that kind and nice are not the same, and it reminded me of how often I think about this in my yoga practice, and in my life.

Being nice is often easy, but being kind is more complicated, because the kindest thing to do for another being may well not be the nicest. This holds true for the small moments in life (Does this eyeshadow look ok? Do I have to eat my vegetables?) and the major decisions (Should I quit my job to follow the band?), and everything in between. Sometimes, what we need from another, or even from the self that is the voice in our own heads, is to be told that the nice choice is the wrong choice.

This comes up often in parenting. There are so many times when it would be nice to give in, but that isn’t the kindest choice. It comes up in managing others, when you see bad options or behavior and have to ‘be mean’ and shut it down. It comes up in asana practice when bed is warm but you should go to class, or it would feel nice to take an hour long asana, but it isn’t the best choice.

Photo by Deb Roby on Flickr

Photo by Deb Roby on Flickr

When it’s not possible to be kind and nice, we can still strive for kind.