Are You Missing Your Monkey?

Yoga is composed of eight limbs:

  1. Yama : A system of morality or how we should treat others
  2. Niyama : Personal observances or how we should treat ourselves
  3. Asanas : Body postures, the physical acts that most people associate with the word yoga
  4. Pranayama : Breathing exercises; the control of prana
  5. Pratyahara : Control of the senses; withdrawing from the world of perception
  6. Dharana : Concentration; being able to create a single pointed focus
  7. Dhyana : Meditation
  8. Samadhi : Union with the divine

But, while this is the case, how often do most people who “do yoga” attend to the limbs other than asana?  This is pretty understandable given that the pose part of it is a lot easier to advertise (hot women doing lunges is more sexy than middle aged ladies meditating), and that many people come to yoga through gyms or other “exercise” venues.  But, even experienced yogis can be overly focused on the asana, to the exclusion of the other limbs.  All acts have a multiplicity of consequences.  What are the possible consequences of letting go of all the other limbs to focus on asana?

If all that one wants out of yoga is a workout, then perhaps the exclusive focus on asana means that one gets a much better workout.  So, that might be a positive consequence.  But, I can say from experience that, if you are open to the other facets of yoga, a beginning with focus on the exercise aspect can lead to something different.  So, perhaps only focusing on asana can mean missing an opportunity for growth in other ways.

If an individual is drawn to yoga not only for exercise, but because he/she has heard that it is good for settling the mind and creating more peace in the self, then a devotion only to asana may have different consequences.  Thinking only about the physical (which can be very challenging, even disconcertingly so) might still the mind some during the class or session, but if the goal is only to “get into” complicated poses or have “the best” workout, then the vrtti that come up between classes (“I suck at yoga,” “Maybe if I work harder, I could get into that pose like Bob does,” “What is wrong with my body that my knees won’t bend that way?”) could become even more agitating, rather than less.

For those who are really wanting to achieve yoga – or union – all the limbs are important.  To ignore some (or most) for the sake of few (or one) seems counterproductive to me, but it’s easy enough to fall into.  As a teacher trainee, I’m spending a pretty good amount of time thinking/talking/reading/enacting the other limbs of yoga.  But, even so, I catch myself emphasizing asana to the exclusion of others at times.  This week, I sustained a mild concussion on Monday.  It caused nasty head pain that made asana impossible.  All week, I fussed (internally and externally) about missing yoga.  Missing yoga?  My brain pain wasn’t preventing attention to the yamas, or the niyamas.  It might have been making meditation more challenging and screwing with my ability to withdraw the senses, but those could still be approached.  I could certainly have spent  more time on pranayama.  Yet, for a few days, I cut of my conscious attention to the totality (some of the yamas/niyamas are such habits that they happen regardless of my degree of focus) because of an inability to really do asana.  Yep, I completely ignored what was available to me by focusing only on what was not.  Not cool.

Rarely do we ever create a greater whole by damaging or ignoring some parts.  We can’t make a better community by hurting some members.  We can’t create a better world by ruining some areas.  We can’t make a better life by abusing our bodies.  We can’t have a better yoga by ignoring 7/8ths of what it is.  All is.  ALL is.

Namaste,

L

Yoga – Exercise or Not Enough?

Photo by "Mike" Michael L. Baird, mikebaird.com & flickr.bairdphotos.com

Since I’ve been in yoga teacher training, I have spent a lot more time thinking about my practice.  Mostly, the thinking involves how to get closer to the union that yoga is based upon – how to “reach” (in quotes because we are all already there – we just have to be there) that place where I can more fully experience the divine. Once in a while, however, I start thinking about what brought me to yoga in the first place – exercise.

When I first started yoga, I did it as a way to seek out a form of exercise that felt good to my non-athletic self, rather than feeling like punishment.  I had only ever worked out to lose weight or maintain weight, and I wanted to find something I could do that would make my body healthier and that I would enjoy enough to keep doing.  Yoga fit the bill.  But, there are times when I wonder if it is “enough” exercise (note that the image to the left is NOT me).

In some instances, I know exactly where this comes from.  I get on the scale and see a number that I don’t like (this happened today – really? how can that number be there? did I not do10 days of juice fasting this month?  WTF?).  Sometimes it comes from reading blogs or articles about amazing athletes (like my friend Maria at http://runningalife.com).   Sometimes, I think it’s because I’m angry with my body for being uncooperative and maybe I want to punish it a little more.  And then there are times when I don’t know where it comes from, but there it is.

My response to these musings can be anything from dismissal (Uh huh! Yoga is exercise – how many people can do that many vinyasas in 90 minutes?), to promises that I’ll do something else (Hey, Maria, I think after I finish teacher training I might start running too), to channeling it into self-castigation over what I’ve eaten or how I look.  But, sometimes, I can pull myself back to remembering what yoga brings to me besides/beyond the physical conditioning and how much I love it and how I would have to give some of it up to do something else and I just don’t want to do that.

Of course, the irony of some of this is that, before I started doing yoga, I wasn’t really exercising at all – beyond just being a mom.  I probably weighed about what I weigh now, or a little more, but  had not a muscle on me.  And at that time, I didn’t really fret about how much exercise was enough much at all.  Had I not had a doctor who pestered me about starting something more formal every time I saw him, I don’t know when I would have gotten it going.  Now I’m doing much more (vinyasa yoga 5-6 days a week and yin 2 days) and still fretting.

I’m not sure where I’m going with this rambling. I suppose I should have thought that out before I started the post.  Do you exercise for the love of it or because you feel you should?  What is your chosen form?  Why?  How do you decide how much is enough?

Namaste,

L

Mandatory Mom Yoga

Image from New York Daily News

It’s one thing to practice my yoga at home, which I do (though I tend to manage it in more little bursts than long sessions), but it’s another thing to practice teaching at home.  I can talk out loud to myself without feeling like a dork IF no one is in the room, or in one of the rooms nearby.  There are 6+ of us living in the house.  How often is that going to happen?  Rarely.  And just saying it in my head is not the same.

The other problem with using my home practice for teaching skills is that I get into a rut of just saying the same things over and over, because I don’t have anyone to see doing the poses.  I can’t get any feedback on what makes sense or what doesn’t.  It’s not a very “real” teaching experience.

Mandatory Mom Yoga to the rescue!  I announced this new program to my children last night.  Starting next week (after Christmas), every Friday evening, I will be hosting a yoga session in our basement playroom.  I have space for everyone to practice, if they want, but I’m making it required that at least 2 of the kids attend each week.  Mean mean mommy.

I expected to hear some whining, but there really wasn’t any.  The 10 year old looked at me funny with her thumb in her mouth and blankie in  her other hand and nodded.  The 14  year old said that he really *wants* to do yoga with me, so that would be great.  The 12 year old said that he wanted to do yoga so he could “get buff,” at which point the following exchange happened:

  • Ben (14) – Nate,  yoga is not about getting buff.  It’s about finding Zen.
  • Nate (12) – Who is Zen and why is he lost?

Bahahaha.  Those kids… such comedians.

We’ll see how this goes.  It could be great or it could be a total disaster.  I certainly have plenty of mats, several blocks, and a few blankets, so props shouldn’t be an issue.  It’s kind of cold in the basement (which is why I rarely seem to go down there to practice) but maybe that will help us really want to get moving.  And, I figure if I can explain what to do to a bunch of pre-teens and teens, who have rarely done yoga, I should be in pretty good shape for an actual class.

More to come…

Namaste,

L