Ideas for Kicking Up the Home Practice?

I love yoga (you might have guessed), and I used to have a good home practice.  But, then I started practicing more at the studio and home practice fell by the wayside.  I’m not really sure what it is.  I have a hard time getting started at home and then a hard time staying with it.  I’ll put it off to the point where it seems to late, or get started and then distract myself with laundry and chores.  I have a good place for it, or at least a large space, so that’s not the reason.  My basement was finished a year and a half ago, and there is a large open space in the back of the room where I have some yoga mats, blocks, and blankets.  Going down into the basement isn’t my favorite thing (but again, I don’t really know why, other than that it is a little chilly and it’s where the laundry lives), so  maybe that’s some of it, but it can’t be all of it.

I’m thinking about doing some things to perk up the basement space and seeing if that might help.  My husband, Derek, got me a very cool poster (http://www.allposters.com/-sp/Yoga-Posters_i314239_.htm)  from allposters.com for our anniversary, so I need to get a frame and put it on the wall.  Then, maybe a little table with some incense and some sort of music playing device.  And, maybe I need to finally get around to fixing up the sewing area down there, so I don’t distract myself from yoga by thinking “dang, that space looks like crap!”   I haven’t quite decided whether I need a desk or just to  cover the table and do something with the big metal file cabinet, but… see how I get distracted by it?!

What do you do to keep up your home practice?

Finding Time for Your Home Practice

A common reason for failure to engage in self-care behaviors is a lack of time. This is true for sleep, eating well, exercising, etc. It’s also the case for maintaining a yoga practice. Unfortunately, the very same people who are too busy and stressed to find the moments needed to care for themselves are also those who really need to care for themselves. One issue that yogis face is the difficulty of finding courses that meet the individual’s own scheduling needs. Local yoga classes may occur during business hours, when after-school activities are happening, at dinner time, etc. One option for yoga is a home practice. It would seem that yoga at home would be an easy thing to fit into the schedule, but it isn’t always that simple.

As I’ve said in a previous post, there are challenges to developing a regular home practice. Distraction and other obligations are big issues.  When you are home, where the dishes and the laundry also live, it’s easy to be distracted by other things that need to be done (or even things that don’t “need” to be done, but that are tempting me to focus on them).  Of course this also relates to the issue of time.  If you are too busy to attend a yoga class (or in the case of mothers of young children, even to take a shower), how do you find 60-90 minutes for a yoga practice?

I think the first key is the realization that yoga is not just asana.  There are eight limbs of yoga, and many of them don’t require you to get on the floor or take tree pose.  Living a life guided by the yamas and niyamas is yoga.  Engaging in pranayama is yoga.  Meditation is yoga.  Perhaps that there is not enough time to engage in an asana practice, but it’s certainly possible to engage in a little breathing control while rocking the baby to sleep.  Or, during that coffee break, perhaps rather than taking 15 minutes to review facebook during your lunch break, spend that time doing a brief meditation.  And, on a daily basis, we can make efforts to treat ourselves and each other well.  All of this is yoga and can be beneficial to self and others.

Even when asana is the focus, yoga doesn’t have to be done in one or two hour blocks in a Lululemon outfit.  Yoga poses can be engaged in an office chair, in a suit.  True, there are some limits to what can be done in a chair, but any yoga is better than no yoga.  Yoga also does not need to be done in long blocks.  Ten minutes of yoga at a time is fine.  If there is room in your residence, it’s a great idea to place a mat on the floor somewhere and leave it there.  When you walk by the mat, step on.  If you can do two Surya Namaskara As at one time, five times a day, that’s a good amount of yoga, but it hasn’t taken up long periods of time.  Yoga in little bites can be a wonderful give to give yourself.

It’s not always easy to find a way to fit your yoga practice into your life, but remember that yoga is about union.  The practice of yoga can beunified with the other parts of our life in such a way that we can find the time and space for the practice while also getting everything else done.

Mandatory Mom Yoga

Image from New York Daily News

It’s one thing to practice my yoga at home, which I do (though I tend to manage it in more little bursts than long sessions), but it’s another thing to practice teaching at home.  I can talk out loud to myself without feeling like a dork IF no one is in the room, or in one of the rooms nearby.  There are 6+ of us living in the house.  How often is that going to happen?  Rarely.  And just saying it in my head is not the same.

The other problem with using my home practice for teaching skills is that I get into a rut of just saying the same things over and over, because I don’t have anyone to see doing the poses.  I can’t get any feedback on what makes sense or what doesn’t.  It’s not a very “real” teaching experience.

Mandatory Mom Yoga to the rescue!  I announced this new program to my children last night.  Starting next week (after Christmas), every Friday evening, I will be hosting a yoga session in our basement playroom.  I have space for everyone to practice, if they want, but I’m making it required that at least 2 of the kids attend each week.  Mean mean mommy.

I expected to hear some whining, but there really wasn’t any.  The 10 year old looked at me funny with her thumb in her mouth and blankie in  her other hand and nodded.  The 14  year old said that he really *wants* to do yoga with me, so that would be great.  The 12 year old said that he wanted to do yoga so he could “get buff,” at which point the following exchange happened:

  • Ben (14) – Nate,  yoga is not about getting buff.  It’s about finding Zen.
  • Nate (12) – Who is Zen and why is he lost?

Bahahaha.  Those kids… such comedians.

We’ll see how this goes.  It could be great or it could be a total disaster.  I certainly have plenty of mats, several blocks, and a few blankets, so props shouldn’t be an issue.  It’s kind of cold in the basement (which is why I rarely seem to go down there to practice) but maybe that will help us really want to get moving.  And, I figure if I can explain what to do to a bunch of pre-teens and teens, who have rarely done yoga, I should be in pretty good shape for an actual class.

More to come…

Namaste,

L