Do It Anyway!

You might put your love and trust on the line
It’s risky, people love to tear that down
Let ’em try
Do it anyway
Risk it anyway


Sometimes it’s really hard to get started, because you are so worried about what other people think, or what the unexpected outcomes might be, or that you might fail.  Sometimes the disapproval of others takes over, when you know inside what is right. Sometimes things just seem too hard. It seems like inertia is a resting place, but you can sit still. Everything is always changing – everything.

And if you’re paralyzed by a voice in your head
It’s the standing still that should be scaring you instead
Go on and
Do it anyway
Do it anyway

Making no choice isn’t an option. Doing nothing isn’t an option. No choice is a choice. Not voting is choosing to let other people make your choices for you. Not keeping yourself knowledgeable about what is going on in the world is choosing to make decisions blindly. Not standing up for the things you believe in because others might look askance is choosing to let those causes falter. Not honoring your body with the rest it needs or the exercise it craves is choosing poor health over welfare.

There are always choices. You always have to make one. What will it be?

Lorin

p.s. this is a little pep talk for me, not just for you!

When Life Gets Away (With) From You

So, long time, no blogging.  It’s been almost 6 weeks since my last blog (wordpress forgive me, for I have not blogged).  Those readers who spend face to face time with me know that it’s not because I don’t have anything to say.  It’s just that time got away from me and I didn’t do it.  And you know, that’s fine.  Sometimes there are just more things to do than hours in a day.  But, today I asked myself to what extent I really made a choice about how to spend the limited time I had or to what extent time just got away from me.

Every day is about choicemaking, but it seems to me that we often make our selections completely mindlessly, with  no real reflection on what is most beneficial to us or to those around us.  I well know that a lot of my time over the last month was spent crocheting gifts (good choice) but a lot was spent unreflectively surfing the web, reading facebook, fretting over things that I can’t control, arguing with people over silly issues.  These aren’t necessarily bad choices, but maybe they are for me, in comparison to what I could have been doing with that time.  I am not sure selecting to read about the lives of friends on facebook rather than blogging would not have been a good choice, but I didn’t really make the choice.  I just drifted into what I did.  I am pretty sure that fretting about things I can’t control was not time as well spent as practicing yoga, which I also did too little of in the last month.

This semester promises to be every bit as busy as the last.  I’m definitely not going to have time to do everything I would like to do.  But, I am hoping I will do better at making mindful selections about what I do.  This may mean more blogging, it may mean less.  It may mean more novel reading (yay!) or it may mean less.  I’m almost sure it will mean more yoga.  But, no matter what the ultimate results are, I am resolving, for this year, to make an effort to have my life/time get away WITH me, instead of getting away from me.